Monday, February 24, 2014

In Defense of Dad Rock


Caught Big Head Todd and the Monsters at a Twist and Shout in-store performance this week. I’ve seen them in concert too many times to count, double digits for sure – but it had been several years, and I was anxious to hear how they sounded these days. Their CDs have been pretty hit-and-miss lately, although I liked what I’d heard of the new one so far. While the band sounded great, and Todd still has his boyish charm and infectious enthusiasm, it became painfully obvious standing amidst the 100 or so fans that we are all getting older – the band, the fans, even (especially?) the groupies. I could hear them behind me: obnoxiously giggly, WOOing during the breaks but incessantly chatty during the actual songs, arriving midway into the set yet shocked and dismayed that the show was over so soon (OMG!) When I turned around, though, I was stunned by their haggardly appearance. The clothes were tight and slinky, the hair was teased, but while one of the four was still empirically hot, the other three... I believe the phrase is ‘mutton dressed as lamb.’ Ooof. Time to let it go, ladies.

The couple in front of me had brought their roughly 8 year old daughter to the show, apparently against her will.  With Mom and Dad swaying awkwardly to the beat and flipping through the vinyl bins (‘Look honey, it’s that Flight of the Conchords show you like!’), the young girl stared up toward the ceiling with a look of resigned exasperation – ‘you can force me to listen to your stupid old folks band, but you can’t make me like it.’  Her parents both looked like experienced concertgoers, and I thought to myself, ‘they look pretty good for their age – probably, what, early forties?’ And then it hit me: I’M in my early forties. Christ! What the hell happened here?

Didn’t matter that the band sounded tight and energetic, not coasting at all. Didn’t matter that they just put out their strongest album in over 10 years. Didn’t matter that they can still cut loose and r-a-w-k. Fact is, Big Head Todd & the Monsters have gotten old, just like their fans. It’s music by dads, for dads. And while I still love it, there’s no denying that this is no longer a college band, the pride of Boulder, the standard bearers for the burgeoning music scene in Colorado. This is now a nostalgia band, playing for nostalgic fans who remember where they were when someone first handed them a copy of Sister Sweetly (‘you gotta check these guys out, they’re local and they’re awesome!’)

At some point, every generation goes through the cycle, from the latest thing to outdated to forgotten to retro to classic. It’s always easier to notice this transition from the outside – when you’re in the middle of it, it’s not nearly as apparent that the stuff you love that used to be the stuff everyone else loves isn’t loved anymore. You don’t realize how much time has passed, how trends have changed. Sure, there’s always some hot new thing coming along, but MY bands are still where it’s at.  But at some point it hits you – Sister Sweetly was over two decades ago.  High school was 25 years ago. All the things you loved, the bands and movies and sports heroes and shows and quotes and pop culture references that defined you, that you clung to as badges of honor distinguishing you and your tribe from all others… that’s all ancient history. Maybe it’ll come around again as retro or ironic or trendy – but more likely, it’s simply forgotten, culturally irrelevant to everyone who came after you. And you don’t see this shift until long after it’s already happened. But then the dinosaurs probably didn’t notice the impending comet of doom coming to wipe them out either, they always figured they’d keep on keepin’ on…

And yet there’s merit in the old stuff, the nostalgic, the retro-in-waiting. Because good music is simply good music, and quality art endures. So I don’t feel so bad about my inevitable failure to keep up with every current trend and fashion. The vapid Flavor-of-the-Month has always been with us, it just used to be called Van McCoy before it was called Wham! before it was called Chumbawumba before it was called LMFAO. Don’t get me wrong, I will always have a soft spot for cheesy, infectiously catchy pop songs. But I also strive to avoid getting stuck in the mud of the familiar and the safe, because it’s so easy to do. We all know people who found their sound (or their look) and never let it go – upon reaching a certain level of musical development and sophistication they said, ‘Yep, this is it, this is where I make my stand. Beyond here I shall go no further.’ Be it 60s folk, or 90s grunge, or all things Lynyrd Skynyrd, they found their comfort zone, and there they shall remain.

As I continue to seek out new music and new bands, I’m always digging for unheard sounds, exploring the roots and branches of artists and genres that I love, because there’s so much great music out there, from emerging artists as well as old fogies. It may not be fashionable, it may not get airplay, it may have limited appeal outside of its core constituencies, but it’s there. And I aim to bring it to the surface as often as possible. That’s what this blog is about.

As I’ve said for years, life’s too short to listen to crap music.

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